When they talk about friendship between a man and a woman, they often mean a relationship in which one has secret love for the other and does not reveal his feelings just because he is afraid of being rejected. What steps must be taken to turn from a friend into a loved one?
Instructions
Step 1
Start making surprises with romantic overtones. It can be a bouquet of scarlet roses, a heart-shaped box of chocolates, an invitation to go to the movies together, other things that will make a friend think about your feelings.
Step 2
In difficult times, be always there. Try to comfort not only with words, but also hug, stroke your face, hair, offer to do a relaxing massage. Perhaps your touch will evoke feelings in a person that go beyond friendship.
Step 3
Find an opportunity for closer physical contact under other circumstances. Hug your boyfriend or girlfriend more often at parties or during joint gatherings, jokingly pat on the back or kiss.
Step 4
In a moment of frankness, admit that you consider your boyfriend or girlfriend to be the person with the ideal set of qualities that you will look for in your life partner. At the same time, diligently pretend that "nothing like that" did not mean, but just shared your thoughts.
Step 5
Always strive to look good, be well-groomed and attractive. Take care of your looks and wardrobe. In the eyes of a friend or girlfriend, create the appearance of your popularity with the opposite sex.
Step 6
Do everything to correspond to the ideas about the ideal of your boyfriend or girlfriend, provide yourself with material wealth, an enviable position and position in society, and get a good home.
Step 7
If you feel that the person you are friends with wakes up interest, attraction, love for you, warm up these feelings, creating the impression that someone else is fighting for your love. It is especially good if it is a beautiful or famous person.
Step 8
Don't admit your true feelings until you're sure a friend or girlfriend is in love with you. In general, it is better for the first confession to come from the opposite side.
