The Japanese family differs from families in other countries by adherence to ancient traditions. Some of them we can hardly understand, some we do not accept at all. And I want to adopt something.
Japan is one of the most interesting and mysterious countries in the world. It surprisingly combines high technology with ancient traditions and culture.
In terms of life expectancy, the Land of the Rising Sun ranks second in the world after Hong Kong. Until the middle of the 19th century, the country was closed from the whole world. Sechas here is the highest standard of living on earth.
Patriarchy in the family
In the modern Japanese family, patriarchal foundations and traditions are not so strong, but they still persist. Men are always the head of the family, while women are in charge of the household and raising children. The roles of men and women are clearly defined:
The younger ones treat the elders with special respect and reverence. Women to men, and they take care and protect them. The wife always tries to please her husband. All holidays are celebrated with the family. Family for the Japanese is something sacred.
The head of the family can safely spend time in various massage parlors, brothels. Japanese women are brought up so that the adventures of her husband on the side are not considered treason. Even if a drunken husband is brought home by a geisha or a dancer, the wife bows to them, thanking them for returning home, and treating them.
Children in a Japanese family
… The upbringing of children is based on the example of the behavior of parents in the family. The mother is always close to the child, talking to him and explaining everything. Therefore, children in Japan start talking before they walk. Children under 12, sometimes up to 16 years old sleep with their parents. A father with his children of both sexes can take a bath, even if the daughter is already 20 years old. This is normal for a Japanese family. From childhood, girls are taught obedience and respect for a man, prepared to be an ideal wife and mother.
The older generation in a Japanese family
In Japan, for a long time, several generations lived under one roof, the oldest man was the head, and everyone obeyed him. In a modern country, grandparents live separately in their home, apartment or in a nursing home. Moreover, if everyone in the family works and there is no one to look after the old people, theirs. The nursing home provides care and supervision for pensioners. Old people will be entertained and fed, and they also have the opportunity to communicate with their peers. Here is a "kindergarten" for the elderly.
What are the Japanese like?
The Japanese have certain national characteristics:
They are very hardworking people, working 16-18 hours is the norm for them. Being late for work or leaving earlier is considered bad form. The people are very honest, if you lose your wallet or any thing, the finder will definitely take it to the lost property office. Politeness and cleanliness are the national traits of the Japanese. If you are involved in an accident, the culprit will apologize and bow for a few minutes, only then call an ambulance. The main thing is to apologize, the victim will wait.
For the Japanese, cleanliness is a cult, they believe that. They wash themselves in the shower, then take a bath every day. Denial is not accepted here, it is believed that this violates the structure of the world. A Japanese person will never tell you no, he can answer “I'll think about it” or “maybe”.
Here they learned to grow environmentally friendly square watermelons, it is convenient during transportation and takes up less space during storage. Watermelons are also grown in the shape of a heart. Another novelty: smart wardrobe. You stuff the crumpled things, after a while you open them, everything is ironed and neatly folded.
Japan is ahead of the whole world, even the toilet bowls are the smartest! There are those who will carry out all the hygiene procedures, and after authorization, the analyzes of feces and urine will be sent to your therapist via Wi-Fi.
In winter, there is no need to be afraid of ice, heated sidewalks. There are vases with umbrellas in the streets. Anyone can use them and after the rain ends, put them in another nearby vase.
You can endlessly write about this country. Having visited Japan, you will bring not only original souvenirs, but also a lot of unforgettable impressions.
