The hopes for a long-term relationship for life are not always justified - more often it happens that people break up, and the separation brings them a lot of stress and frustration. Nevertheless, if you suddenly realize that the relationship has come to an end, and it would be better for everyone to end it, you need to learn how to leave correctly - so that the girl has only positive memories of your relationship and of yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
If you really realized that the relationship cannot be returned, do not cling to the love that has passed away, realize that you need to live on and build a relationship with someone else.
Step 2
Seeing a breakup not as a tragedy, but as a new beginning - this will make it easier to get over it.
Step 3
Don't repeat the mistake most people make - your breakup shouldn't be a negativity event.
Step 4
Leave the girl so that she later remembers you with love and warmth - this is more worthy and more enjoyable than making a scandal on the eve of parting.
Step 5
Maintain a respectful and respectful attitude towards the girl no matter what - she will be grateful to you and keep the best memories of you.
Step 6
If your relationship has long been on the brink, and a slight push is enough to end it, think about whether you can turn it into a friendship by ending it without conflict and gently.
Step 7
The main thing that you need to understand is do not try to hide from the girl that feelings have begun to fade. The best way to let her know this is to talk to her calmly and honestly, without mutual claims and reproaches.
Step 8
Let her know that, despite the fact that the love has passed, you respect her as an interesting person, and are ready to continue friendly communication in the future.
Step 9
Be sure to thank the girl in the crucial conversation before breaking up. Let her know that you are grateful to her for what she gave you - and the girl, in turn, will also be grateful to you for your love.
