And you seem to be doing well. Your beautiful and passionate romance has developed into a serious, stable relationship. And there is no longer any doubt that he is the one with whom you see yourself next to both in five and ten years. The one from whom you want children. But he is in no hurry to propose to you, although you are so expecting it.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't put pressure on him. Even if your patience is already coming to an end, and the phrase “When will we get married?” Is about to fly off your tongue, you must try to make sure that it still does not fly off. Better bite your tongue until he first talks about marriage. Otherwise, you risk losing it.
Men, up to a certain point, are terrified of the word "wedding" uttered by a woman. And even if he has been living with his beloved for a long time, to whom he brings the entire salary, in return receiving washed socks and homemade cutlets, he can still experience panic at the thought of a stamp in his passport. We women, of course, cannot understand this phobia; we just have to accept and find a way to resist it.
Step 2
Make the man "himself" realize all the benefits of being married. It will be difficult if you do not live together. Therefore, the first step is to move in with your chosen one. If he doesn't show the initiative in any way, you can go for a trick. Tell him that a pipe burst at the neighbors from above and you were heavily flooded, so for some time repairs will be made in your apartment, respectively, you simply have nowhere to live. Just think of something in case your lover wants to prove himself as a knight and volunteers to do the repair himself.
After you become a “forced” mistress in his house, you will have the cards in your hands. Surround him with care, forget about restaurant cuisine for a while - feed him delicious homemade food. Buy yourself a good cookbook and surprise your loved one with your culinary skills every day. And what to do - although it is the twenty-first century, women have not yet come up with a more sure way to a man's heart than through his stomach.
Step 3
Show your chosen one how pleasant it is not only to go to bed together at night, but also to wake up in her arms in the morning. Every day. Do not deny him morning sex, even if you are afraid to be late for work. In the morning, be sure to feed him a delicious, hearty and healthy breakfast.
Step 4
Do all your household chores naturally and easily. However, men's help should not be neglected, otherwise later, when you get married, it will be difficult for you to prove that you are also tired and cannot handle all the household chores yourself.
Step 5
Go together to visit married couples who, of course, are happily married. Someone else's positive example has a good effect on the male consciousness. By the way, this method is especially shown if you have been living in a civil marriage for a long time, but your husband is in no hurry to formalize the relationship. Let him see that the wedding and the stamp in the passport does not change anything in life together. At least for the worse.
