The relationship between a guy and a girl is often filled with doubts and sometimes unfair accusations. All of this can ultimately lead to rupture. If you want to get your girlfriend back, you need to change yourself and take a fresh look at your relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Change yourself before trying to reconnect with your girlfriend. Think about what got in the way of your connection, perhaps your girlfriend often complained that you spent little time with her. Ask her friends if they can tell you what negative aspects you should reconsider in yourself. Work on your emotional state. Show the girl that you are the master of your own life, they love self-sufficient and independent men.
Step 2
Girls are most attracted to independent and cheerful guys who know how to have fun. If you feel overwhelmed after breaking up, you will have to work a lot on yourself. Stop being jealous. By showing your girlfriend that you are jealous, you unwittingly tell her that you want to control her. Nobody likes being in control, focus on trust in your relationship. Do not show your depressed state if you are in it. Even if you feel very bad, surround yourself with friends and family, try to find positive in everything. Do not hope to return the girl by withdrawing into yourself and expecting that everything will be resolved by itself. If you don't have a sense of humor, work on it. Playfulness and humor in relationships bring people very close. More often joke with your friends, see what jokes you succeed the most. Learn to laugh at yourself.
Step 3
After a breakup in your relationship, leave the girl alone for a while, you both need to think about what happened. Stop all contact with her for a few days or even weeks. So you will not only give her time to calm down and reevaluate your relationship, but also show her your independence, the ability to calmly go through troubles, without needing outside help.
Step 4
Apologize to her. Apologies after breakups are almost always the order of the day. By asking her for forgiveness, you show that you are able to drop your own ego and admit your mistakes. Send her flowers, write a letter, finally, meet her in the most comfortable place for her, tell her how much you worry about parting, tell her that you admit your mistakes and are ready to take responsibility for them. Rebuilding a broken relationship may take some time. You need to show the girl that she can trust you. Do something good for your girlfriend without expecting anything in return. Spend as much time with her as possible, act confidently, the girl should see your playful mood.
Step 5
When you apologize and regain confidence in yourself, you can tell the girl that you want her back. Take responsibility for restoring the relationship on yourself, do not tell the girl that she could take the first step. The girl should know about all the changes that have occurred in you recently, say that you have become more patient and now you know about most of your own shortcomings. Reassure her that you can overcome all the troubles and restore the relationship together. Remember why at one time you broke up and learn from your own mistakes.
