Sex is one of the most important areas of life. Good sex should be satisfying for both partners. Everything is important here, both the mood and the atmosphere. Sex between people in love can be wonderful.
The right mindset is the key to successful sex
Sexual intimacy for the mutual pleasure of partners is preferable to a fleeting connection. If sex is not spontaneous but is to happen on a scheduled date, it is very important to think about creating a romantic atmosphere in the room. Ideally, chamber lighting, candles, a relaxing aroma, wine or champagne, gentle music will not interfere. A properly selected light menu with aphrodisiacs will help make sex amazing and unforgettable.
Attention should be paid to aphrodisiacs, as they affect sexual desire, ignite passion at the biochemical level. Avocados, artichokes, bananas, honey are excellent aphrodisiacs that can be interestingly combined in dishes to achieve greater effect. These include pine nuts, apples, coffee and caviar.
Real intimacy is so pleasant and easy that it does not always require words. But in order to avoid misunderstandings, it is important to learn how to talk about sex. It is important to say compliments to your partner, they are especially exciting for men. Frivolous conversation with hints of sexual intimacy works better than erotic images. Talking about sex can help bring out taboo topics and areas as well as sexual taboos. This will help avoid awkwardness in the future.
If something causes discomfort in the process, gently inform your partner about it.
Technical details
Emotions play a decisive role in sexual relationships. Sex is a creative process, so there are no ideal schemes for the act itself. To avoid any embarrassing moments, it is important to remember a few things.
For a woman to be able to experience an orgasm, she needs to be completely relaxed. Therefore, it is so important to tune in to the right mood and choose a comfortable position.
Firstly, you need to pay attention to hygiene, a pleasant smell will more likely set your partner in the right mood. Secondly, do not forget about contraception, it is very important to exclude the risk of unwanted pregnancy so that both partners can relax. Condoms are the simplest birth control option, so if you are planning a romantic date, make sure you have enough of them.
Don't neglect foreplay. Foreplay is very important for women. Gentle touches to the neck, back, arms, chest and other parts of the body will set your partner in the right mood. This does not mean that a woman should not caress a man; foreplay should be mutual. Do not try (especially at first) to use difficult, physically demanding poses. Until you get used to each other, it's important to gradually get to know your partner's body and not treat sex like a roller coaster.
