He beats, it means he loves - many know this proverb. And many people in practice appreciate its value. Domestic violence is not uncommon in Russia. But such cases do not often go beyond the family. According to statistics, 40% of victims of domestic tyrants prefer to cry, be treated, but remain silent. Experts offer their own instructions on how to get rid of assault.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are tired of enduring beatings and do not want to flinch anymore when your husband returns home, first of all, you need to run away from home. And run as fast as possible, without wasting time collecting things. Take documents, grab children and run. Save yourself with your parents, relatives, friends, anywhere.
Step 2
Go to the clinic. This is necessary to fix the beatings. Let them remove everything that is on the body - to the slightest bruise and bruise. Based on the results, you will be given a certificate that should serve as the reason for opening a criminal case.
Step 3
Get someone's support. It can be a brother, dad, a friend's husband, a family friend (of course, sympathetic to you), a district police officer. Go home with this person and calmly collect the things you need. In the presence of strangers, your husband will definitely not dare to offend you.
Step 4
Apply for divorce. Leave the arguments from the series that it will change, correct, and no longer be so, leave the grandmothers on the bench. Statistics are relentless: they will and will not change.
Step 5
You don't have to bring the case to court if you don't want to. But a man who has gone too far can always be intimidated with a report of beatings, which eloquently indicates his guilt. If a man behaves defiantly and cannot calm down in any way, the case can be brought to court.
Step 6
It is advisable to send the child somewhere for a while: to grandfather and grandmother, to a camp, to relatives at sea. For him, and so the psychological trauma will be that the parents get divorced. And the fact that dad beats mom can generally cause irreparable damage to the delicate child's psyche.
Step 7
See a psychologist. After all, even if you do not admit this to yourself, your spouse inflicted a very strong psychological trauma on you. And then you may be wary of starting another relationship. So go right away while the wound is fresh - it will be easier to deal with it than when it is overgrown with a lump of memories, experiences and complexes.
Step 8
And remember, what happened is not your fault. Whatever a woman has done, she does not deserve to be beaten.
