In the modern world, you can often find hostility and aggression. A special surge in the spread of aggression is noted among schoolchildren. Often adolescents' hostile actions are aimed at showing their strength, permissiveness and superiority. The immoral behavior of minors is usually caused by a feeling of not love and rejection by society. It's time to help your child get rid of the difficult teen label.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to figure out the cause of the aggressive behavior. This may be defensive or responsive to peer behavior, an inability to behave differently and express their feelings and emotions in a different way, or your child asserts himself in such behavior. Try to clarify the reason for the inappropriate behavior of your daughter or son.
Step 2
Pay attention to how you respond to your child's violent outbursts. Perhaps the teenager is simply copying the behavior of his parents. Or, on the contrary, your calm reaction to the child's aggression gave confidence that this is completely normal behavior.
Step 3
Pay attention to the communication in your family. If a child hears scandals and constant screams, then the child's behavior is unlikely to be different. You definitely will not wait for calm behavior and eulogies. Remember, you are the main reference point for your child and an example to follow. If you want to fix your teen's behavior, start with yourself. Lead only a positive example.
Step 4
Be tolerant and restrained, keep your composure even at the most critical moment. With this behavior, you will prove to your teenager that the forceful method is not the most effective way to resolve the conflict.
Step 5
Give your child the freedom to make decisions more often and let him know that he is responsible for all decisions. The teenager needs to understand that there are safe and unsafe solutions.
Step 6
Become your child's best friend. Maintain in your growing person the set of qualities that he has. Rejoice in achievements, praise him, analyze failures and mistakes together. Spend more time with your child, don't just talk. Organize joint leisure and recreation, foster respect for the older generation, involve them in useful activities and support their hobbies.
Step 7
Get your child's bubbling energy back on track. Find the right activity for the rebel - sports, music, dancing, or other hobbies. Ideally, this should be a shared hobby. Find an alternative that replaces communication in a bad company or takes it out of the Internet. Once you've achieved your first successes, don't stop, continue transforming your teenage energy.
Step 8
Be sincere. Teenagers have a subtle sense of the catch. Talk to your child at the same level, you do not need to point out that you do not have equal rights. Remember, inattention to your underage rebel can make life difficult not only for the child, but also for those around him.
