Women are emotional creatures, therefore, when they are not satisfied with something, or are admired by something, they must speak up. Men, on the other hand, are more reserved and do not always rush to reveal their emotions in front of others, and sometimes it is very difficult to correctly assess their silence.
Instructions
Step 1
There can be a lot of reasons for male silence. Maybe he's just in a bad mood. Failures at work, conflicts with the boss, stepped on their feet in the subway, or a taxi driver was rude. Interrogation and annoying questions like “why are you silent?”, “You don’t want to talk to me” will not have a positive effect on him. In order for him to open up and stop pretending to be an iron impenetrable man, you need to become his friend. Men are big children. You will have to tinker a little: talk to him, listen to his every word, shake your head, encouraging his words and actions, and be on his side. Then he will understand that you, like a man, have delved into his problems, and he will calm down faster.
Step 2
He failed with his idea, idea, project. A sure sign of such an unpleasant situation will be casually thrown curses at your address. Support and cheer him up, only the words should be sincere, and not look like cheap fake. Tell him that all goals will eventually be achieved by him, you will always be there and accept him, no matter what he does. A man should see that you do not doubt him, that he is your shoulder and a solid support.
Step 3
Perhaps he has some kind of secret. Just don't panic right away, going over various options in your head: found another one, a mistress appeared, committed a crime, or lost all the money in slot machines. Be patient and wait for the moment when he decides to tell you his terrible secret. Of course, you should not pretend to be absolutely indifferent. You are worried, but you do not want to arbitrarily meddle in his affairs, because everyone should have the right to personal space. Be sure to think about it: if he does not want to share his secret with you, then he does not completely trust you. Perhaps when you once lectured him in public or told his secret to your friends. Then do not get upset and complain that he is silent. Pull yourself together: you are not a little girl, but a woman who knows what she wants and always achieves it. Remember - everything secret, sooner or later, becomes apparent.
Step 4
He is considering an important decision. Your man is used to doing everything on his own and without help. Well, this is a big plus in his piggy bank of positive qualities. The best female position with such silence is to support any of his decisions. If he asks you various kinds of leading questions in order to finally determine your problem, answer them immediately, without trying to find out what he is up to.
Step 5
You have done something wrong or wrong. With his cold and eloquent silence, the man makes it clear that you are wrong. And what exactly is the mistake of your behavior, you must understand and realize for yourself. Just don’t pretend to be an innocent maiden: if you don’t want to talk to me, then I won’t. Be smarter: repent, admit your mistake. A positive result is guaranteed: the wolves are fed and the sheep are safe.
