You are lucky to find your soul mate. How to maintain a relationship? So that feelings do not fade away, life does not become monotonous, and everyday life does not destroy your love, you need to build and improve relationships.
Keeping individuality
In couples that live side by side for a long time, the partners' individuality is slowly erased. Preservation of individuality, independence, independence is a very important "key" to a non-fading interest in a relationship. You need to try to realize yourself, achieve a lot and become much more interesting for your partner. Of course, each other needs to be supported in this. Constantly be interested in the progress of the partner's affairs, his emotions about him, his opinion on various issues. 24 hours a day.
We miss
Each other all the time, when not together. But we miss us constructively. And do not forget to tell your “half” exactly how you miss. Take advantage of any opportunity to tell your “half” all the good things that you did not finish when you were together, thinking that you will always have time to do it. Tell us about his cute habits that you miss, about words and deeds that are dear to your heart. Reevaluate your whole life together, day by day, minute by minute. This will help you not to move away, but to really get closer.
"Refreshing" the senses
Routine and a long stay together slightly dull the acuteness of even the most ardent feelings. Try going back to the pink romantic period or jumping ahead to the blue dream and diversifying your relationship. For this, any event that pleases both will do. It is very useful to dream about the future, to plan and design it together. Building castles in the air will rally and unite like nothing else. Therefore, it is worth discussing all dreams with your partner and planning a joint future. This will give your relationship unprecedented prospects and a huge incentive to continue.
Do not forget about the little things
That it is necessary to communicate and maintain a dialogue is understandable. But how? Not only "how are you?", Of course. In the communication of two loving people, details are important. Try to tell and ask about all the smallest events. Talk about feelings, taste, color, smell. As if you are experiencing it all together. As if you are there all the time.
We come up with rituals
For example, every morning - an SMS with a good morning wish or a cup of joint coffee. Every Saturday - feeding ducks in the park or going to the cinema. Every evening … there are many options. Any of your little rituals (but its regularity is very important) will give a feeling of security and closeness and, for sure, will cause another positive emotion associated with you in your partner. Buy gifts for no reason. Little pleasant things so that your loved one knows that you are always thinking about him. Even the ritual of joint morning coffee will give you a huge positive charge for the whole day. And for a long, happy life.
