Young couples sooner or later think about having a child. But it also happens that a man is not yet ready to become a father, even if a woman is already ready for a long time. What is the reason? There may be several answers.
Instructions
Step 1
Money. Often a man is against a child, because he is afraid of his financial insolvency. He believes that he will not be able to provide the child with everything he needs sufficiently. A man has a goal - to maximize the financial situation of the family. Keep in mind, however, that this can take several years.
Step 2
Jealousy. Yes, yes, some men are very worried about the fact that their beloved will completely forget about them, giving all of herself to the child. But know that the child needs the attention of both the mother and the father, because he needs constant care. A man must understand this.
Step 3
Responsibility. Often men say that having a baby is a big responsibility, so they are not ready to become a father. Indeed, spouses often think about the child and ponder such a step. So if the husband isn't ready, that's the way it is. Then the best thing to do is to agree and wait.
Step 4
Family conflicts. It also happens that the husband does not want this particular woman to become the mother of his children. Such thoughts arise if frequent scandals and scenes of jealousy occur in the family. A man is bored with such a relationship, and he tries to avoid talking about children. In such a situation, the best thing is, of course, to improve the relationship and clarify all conflicts.
