Some women worry about the fact that men do not seem to notice them, while others, on the contrary, suffer from an excess of male attention. However, this can be both a problem and an advantage.
Determine what kind of attention you are getting
If men pay attention to you all the time and it makes you uncomfortable, first analyze what caused their interest. Frequent glances of men can really be a wake-up call when a woman, knowingly or unknowingly, dresses vulgarly. Men can perceive her as an accessible sexual object, make unambiguous proposals. Sometimes such attention can even be dangerous.
If you suspect that you don't always look the time and place, it may be worth choosing a more appropriate wardrobe. If you find it difficult to do this yourself, you can seek advice from a friend or relative who wishes you well, or from a professional stylist. It's no secret that the first impression a person makes depends on his clothes and appearance. And for a woman, this is perhaps even more relevant than for a man.
Male attention as an advantage
If you are all right with self-presentation and appearance, and men show a sincere interest in you, invite you on dates, show signs of attention, offer help in different situations, this is rather a reason to rejoice. Surely many women envy you. In this case, you just have to learn how to communicate with fans correctly: to be benevolent; be able to refuse without hurting pride and without feeling guilty at the same time; let them know that you value their attention.
If you know for sure that you don’t want a relationship with any man, do not hesitate to say “no”, make it clear that there can only be friendly communication between you. If you are too shy and gentle person and cannot always resist the pressure, it makes sense to develop an inner core and the ability to defend yourself in interaction with people. Consider your psychological discomfort as a reason to work on yourself and improve yourself. Correct communication with men who have sympathy for you can be both enjoyable and rewarding, while maintaining the proper distance.
Many women feel elated and energized because they are liked and looked at by men. The good mood and energy obtained in this way can be used with benefit - for example, to finally carry out a general cleaning or finish an important project that has been postponed for a long time.
It all depends on the situation
Of course, there are situations when increased male attention is useless. If, for example, you have to visit a dysfunctional area alone in the evening, it is hardly worth preening. No makeup and simple clothing will be the best option.
Thus, male attention can be both a plus and a minus in different situations. It depends only on the woman whether she will turn it to her advantage or to her detriment. Here you can only advise to develop in yourself worldly wisdom in order to understand when and how to behave, and to learn to feel confident in any situation.
