When you visit friends and acquaintances, you communicate with their children. Often, adults who do not have babies of their own are lost from that huge number of children's questions and unusual requests. It is impossible to ignore the interest of children, so you need to prepare in advance to communicate with them, because your help may also be needed by a neighbor's child in the yard.
Instructions
Step 1
Everyone, both adults and children, deserves respect and sincere attitude towards themselves. You, of course, do not have to spend the whole evening at a party playing Lego with someone else's child, but you can politely introduce yourself to the little person and answer a couple of questions.
Step 2
There is no need to "lisp" and distort your speech, imitating a child's babble. The child must hear well-constructed phrases and literary words in order to learn how to speak correctly. Eliminate profanity and slang expressions.
Step 3
Usually girls are drawn to spectacular women, and boys tend to communicate with funny guys. When meeting someone else's child, do not allow familiarity, he must respect adults. Therefore, try to teach your baby only good things, educational games that you probably have in your friends' house will help you with this.
Step 4
Do not impose your parenting methods on the child's parents. If you allow the baby to secretly eat the extra candy, this will undermine the authority of his mother, who forbade her child to overeat sweets, and harm his health. Strictly follow the rules established in the house where you come to visit. If you think that children are being raised in the wrong way, give parents a book written by a reputable author-educator.
Step 5
A child can behave aggressively - shoot bullets from a pistol, take away a purse, pull hair. In this case, you do not need to scream and swear, sit the child next to you and, looking into his eyes, calmly say that it was painful and unpleasant for you. Clarify that this is how enemies behave, and no one wants to acquire them, it is better to remain friends.
Step 6
Often unfamiliar children, if you communicate with them with pleasure and answer tricky questions, can entrust you with their secret. Don't give out harmless secrets to your parents. If the essence of the "secret" is secret smoking or skipping school, try to convince the child not to do it again. Tell us about your experiences when such pranks have seriously harmed you.
Step 7
At the next meeting, find out how the child is doing. Warn him that while this remains your secret, but if there is no progress, you will need to ask his parents for help. Children do not just consult with adults, they thus ask for your help. Manage to provide it in a timely manner and carefully in relation to the baby.
Step 8
Share your skills, skills and knowledge with the guys in the yard. Organizing the kids and making some pretty bird feeders and laying out the lawn will benefit everyone.
