Children do not always grow up obedient, honest, responsible. And very often parents are to blame for this. They do not give the child the right amount of warmth and care. And he rebelles in response, lies, is rude.
Instructions
Step 1
Young children love their parents, whatever they are. Comprehension of the environment comes later - at the age of six or seven. Up to this point, the child continues to respect and appreciate even the most emotionally cold, callous parents just because they are with him for as long as he can remember.
Step 2
At the age of six to seven, when the need for social interaction increases, the child begins to learn that there are other families in which children are truly loved. He communicates with friends and classmates who tell him about how kind and good parents are, how they love and value their children. The child begins to compare the behavior of friends' relatives with his own mom and dad. And the comparison is often not in favor of the family. Then the child tries to figure out why this happened.
Step 3
When a child tries to find out from adults why they treat him so coldly or harshly, he cannot accurately formulate questions, so he asks leading ones. For example, "why did you give birth to me", "what would you do if I was not there", etc. Such and similar questions should alert loving parents. Because, based on the answers, the child builds his further attitude towards his parents.
Step 4
After rethinking the situation when unconscious love passes or does not pass into conscious love, the child begins another communication with the parents. If the baby is convinced that he is loved and appreciated, he is imbued with confidence in his loved ones, devotes them to all his problems, asks for help. If the child realized that his parents do not treat him too warmly, fulfilling their duties only because there is no one else to do this, and not out of love for his own child, he closes in. The kid no longer shows mom and dad that they are his beloved, begins to behave withdrawn, or, conversely, to be rude. All this is done in order to evoke in loved ones at least some emotions that can make it clear that the child is not completely indifferent to them.
