Getting to know a guy or a girl always involves some kind of dialogue. And the further development of relations often depends on how it develops. That is why people who want to make a good impression on a new acquaintance need to be very careful in choosing topics for conversation.
Instructions
Step 1
At the very beginning of any acquaintance, people talk briefly about themselves. Tell your boyfriend or girlfriend about your habits and abilities, your hobbies and interests. It's a good idea to think about close friends and funny, interesting stories that you have fallen into. It may happen that you find a lot in common, and then you will already vigorously discuss topics that are interesting for both. Perhaps you love football and your new acquaintance is a fan of this sport. In this case, you no longer have to look for topics for conversation, as they will find you themselves. Just remember that stories from your life should not be too intimate, and it is better not to go into the details of your biography, otherwise you run the risk of sounding like a meticulous and boring person.
Step 2
It's good if you have an excellent sense of humor. Tell a boyfriend or girlfriend about a funny incident, or just share a funny joke with a new friend that you hear on TV or read on the Internet. Keep in mind that the told joke must be fresh, because your interlocutor will be embarrassed to laugh at what he has heard more than once.
Step 3
If your new acquaintance is rather taciturn, you can try to get him to talk with some questions. But these questions should be on a free topic, in no way affecting his personal space. You can ask about his hobbies and what he does in his free time. But with whom does he spend it? and what is going on in his soul, it is strictly forbidden to ask. If a person wants to tell you something, he will tell you himself.
Step 4
You can touch upon some of your plans for the future in a conversation. For example, you can tell the interlocutor about what you want to achieve in life, what is your priority, what you are striving for. If a guy or a girl keeps up the conversation, connecting your personal plans for the future to this, you will be able to compare in your mind whether you are with this person along the way, or if you have too different outlooks on life. Just do not proclaim your comparisons aloud and desperately argue with him, proving that your priorities are more important than his.
Step 5
You can diversify the dialogue with a few memories from the past. A new acquaintance will certainly be interested to know any adventures of your life. Just do not tell him about the bitter experience of unsuccessful love or family troubles. It is best to remember positive moments and be keenly interested in such incidents from the life of the interlocutor. And remember that when you first meet, you need to be restrained and show interest in continuing the acquaintance.
