Psychologists advise: "In order to find your love, you first need to love yourself." But what if self-love is a long passed stage, and the second half has not yet been found? Alternatively, look elsewhere.
Why is self-love advice so popular? Loving yourself is not just about stopping calling yourself stupid or fat. You need to love your body, face, hair. Go in for sports and lose an extra couple of kilograms, and not justify your laziness with your body constitution. Start taking care of yourself regularly, sorting out your wardrobe, throwing out worn-out things without pity.
Straighten your back, raise your head higher and change the sadness in your eyes to the joy of life. Self-confidence attracts many people.
Where to find your love
In the first place in terms of the number of acquaintances is the Internet. Social networks, dating sites, forums and chats. The disadvantage of online dating is the unknown: who is on the other side of the monitor.
When choosing online dating, be careful. View the person's page if it's a social network. The lack of photos, information and the minimum number of friends should be alarming. Dating sites are losing their popularity every year due to the large number of swindlers. It is better to register at a city or some thematic forum. After talking with a person in general topics, the conversation can be transferred to private messages.
You can find your love at work. In order not to get a reprimand from your superiors, you should not advertise your sympathy for a person at work. You can invite him to lunch or chat after the end of the working day.
In a fitness club, you can not only get to know a person, but also evaluate his physical characteristics or show himself. Well, and, of course, all this is combined with benefits for the figure and health.
Flirting parties are organized in some cities. Arriving there, you can be sure that those present are free and also interested in acquaintance. If you can't find the right candidate for a serious relationship, you're just having fun or making new friends.
Alternatively, you can ask your friends to introduce someone. Almost every person has a couple of free acquaintances.
How to find your love
Don't sit alone at home. The more varied your hobbies, places you visit and your social circle, the more chances you have to meet your love.
Do not be afraid to be the first to approach the person you like. Especially if he shows sympathy in return.
Don't make it your goal to find love, and don't be discouraged if it doesn't. It is not for nothing that they say: "Love will inadvertently come when you do not expect it at all." Let go of the situation, just enjoying life, and love will surely find you on its own.
