Many parents are faced with the fact that after the child begins to go to kindergarten, the number of diseases increases dramatically. Parents (usually mothers) have to go on sick leave, stay with the child at home. But after recovery, literally in a few days, the child can fall ill again and everything starts anew. Because of this, my mother may have problems at work, she starts to get nervous.
In medicine, there is a special term - often ill children. But parents have to send such children to kindergarten. Someone is simply forced to go to work, since it is not possible to feed a family on the salary of one parent. Someone worries about the child's inclusion in society. In any case, the child goes to kindergarten and the cycle of diseases begins.
This does not bring pleasure to anyone, and it is simply necessary to fight it.
Fighting disease should not only be done with drugs and medication. The state of health of a person is greatly influenced by his psychological state. In children, this relationship is much stronger than in adults. Therefore, one of the components of the fight against diseases is the creation of a favorable psychological climate for the child.
First, you should make your child's stay in kindergarten as comfortable as possible. You can accompany the daily morning farewell with some kind of ritual that creates a good mood for the child. For some, it will be just a kiss on the cheek and a hug. Someone needs something different. Here, parents need to watch their child and turn on their fantasy.
Secondly, you should never break any promises related to kindergarten. If the parent has promised to pick up the child early today, then the promise must be fulfilled at all costs. Otherwise, the child will subconsciously fear that the next time mom or dad may not come, although they promised.
Third, you should avoid scolding your child when getting up and getting ready for kindergarten in the morning. This creates a negative attitude towards the process itself. And to avoid this, the child will resist awakening. Even if the parents are in a hurry, and the child is slowly getting ready, it is worth holding back the angry tone and trying to rush him in a playful way.
Well, and, perhaps, most importantly, never and under no circumstances can a child be threatened with a kindergarten. Words like: "Since you behave like that, then we will leave you in kindergarten" - a direct road to the fear of going to kindergarten.
Therefore, the first step on the path to health and enjoyment of the child from going to kindergarten is the good mood of the parents themselves. It should be remembered even when angry words simply fly off their lips.
