Do you check your personal page on social networks every free minute or do not let go of your phone, waiting for its messages, but they are not there? Getting a guy to write to you is not as difficult as it seems at first glance.
Instructions
Step 1
Define the goals of your communication ahead of time. Are you interested in an easy and unobtrusive flirtation or are you planning to have sex without obligation with this young man? Then there is no need to wait for his initiative. Better write to him yourself. To attract attention, the message should not be trivial and boring - he is unlikely to want to respond to this. An intriguing and interesting message will make you think about continuing the dialogue. If you want to give the impression of a serious girl who is not ready for an open relationship and is looking for true feelings, then in no case should you write first. Encourage the man to write to you of his own free will.
Step 2
Make sure the guy knows your contact details. Perhaps he himself has been trying for a long time and unsuccessfully to find a way to contact you, and you are puzzling over why he does not write or call. If your acquaintance took place recently, then yourself offer to exchange phone numbers and page addresses on the Internet. There is nothing reprehensible in this - just do it unobtrusively, as if you need this exchange "just in case." Men can also be shy, and this “cover” of their true purpose will help them overcome their fear of the first step towards you.
You have known each other for a long time, he knows how and where you can be found, but does not write? In this situation, only two options are possible: first, he is not interested in communicating with you and there is nothing you can do about it if he himself avoids him in all possible ways. You can't be cute. Second, he lost your contacts. The phone is broken, the computer is infected with a virus, or the password for a social network account has been lost - it doesn't matter. Try to find out from mutual acquaintances. If so, then you have a wonderful occasion to remind of yourself.
Step 3
Be in his sight. Try to catch his eye as often as possible, but don't overdo it. Let it happen completely by chance, by coincidence. You were passing by, or relaxing in a cafe near his place of work or study, and suddenly fell in love with the club in which he spends all weekend. Then he will have a reason to write to the beautiful girl with whom fate so often brings him.
Step 4
Do you constantly communicate with him, but he does not write to you? Then flirt. Without pressure and excessive frivolity, it is easy, witty and to the point. You should not press and force to communicate. Be always cheerful, joke to the point and talk about the similarity of your views on life - this way you will make him not only write, but also look at you with loving eyes.