The betrayal of one of the spouses always becomes a painful blow to the other. However, such an act does not mean that your significant other does not love you and does not have deep feelings for you.
If you have been cheated on by someone you truly love, it’s best to give them a choice. Maybe he will really be happy not with you, but with another person. Then let him go, let him live and enjoy life, but without you. If your significant other, after committing adultery, nevertheless claims that she loves only you, and she does not need anyone but you, the choice of forgiveness or separation is only yours.
It is difficult to survive the betrayal of a loved one and loved one, but still possible. To begin with, understand that such a betrayal, although it hurt you, but life has not ended there. Time will pass, and let this offensive situation not be forgotten, but it will no longer disturb your soul with such force. Be strong. In addition, this test will surely become for you a new life lesson and experience that will temper your nerves.
Try talking to your significant other about the reasons for the betrayal. Chances are, both of you are to blame for what happened. Cheating is most often committed when there are too many disagreements, misunderstandings, conflicts, quarrels, lack of tenderness, warmth and mutual return of feelings in the family. Find the root of this behavior of a loved one and destroy it. If the person lacked your attention, surround him with warmth and care, if you often quarreled, try to eliminate conflicts before they even start. Find compromises. Of course, after you have been betrayed, it will be too difficult for you to make a mutual effort to preserve the family, but you must find the strength in yourself and work on the relationship. Family psychologists help some couples in such situations.
Loyal guys and girls very often decide to take revenge on their beloved by his own methods, so they thoughtlessly rush into the arms of any person who is nearby. It is strictly forbidden to commit such acts. Just think what will become of your already tainted relationships and feelings. You will destroy mutual trust to the end, and you yourself will most likely experience remorse, because you will go to bed with a stranger only for the sake of a sweet feeling of revenge.
Remember that a marriage relationship is built only between two people who love and respect each other, even the temporary appearance of any third person in them can destroy even the most persistent, reliable and strong married couple.