Cheating, unfortunately, is not uncommon in marital relationships. Couples experience such an unpleasant event in different ways: someone breaks up, some have mistrust of their partner forever, and only a few are able to survive the betrayal and move on, realizing the value of the relationship. You cannot take control of the situation and prevent cheating on your partner, but it is in your power to reduce the likelihood of this event.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't force your spouse to match the image of the ideal man that you came up with, perhaps as a child. A fictional prince can be dazzlingly handsome and brave, he is a doctor of sciences and the owner of his own business, is able to lay a bully with one hand, nail shelves at home on demand and bakes pancakes in the morning. You just married another man with your own interests and needs. Do not show dissatisfaction with the fact that your man does not live up to the ideal - he did not sign up for this.
Step 2
Unrealized sexual fantasies quite often push spouses to the left. And it's not so much that one of the partners requires something too perverse, but that both are not used to talking about sex. But it's hard to guess that your spouse would not mind seeing you in a nurse's suit or trying bondage if he never told you about it. Take the first step. Share what you would like to experience and invite the man to describe his desires in response. Quality sex that pleases both parties will strengthen the family.
Step 3
Get your spouse to respect you. Cheating is an act that offends your partner. And to offend a person for whom you have genuine respect is morally difficult. Probably, your conscience will simply not allow your man to be in someone else's bed.
Step 4
Tell each other exactly what you expect from your relationship. If you would like to receive more support from your beloved spouse, tell him directly about it. In return, ask him to voice his needs as well, whether it’s being friendly after a hard day at work or watching a football match together. It will not be superfluous to visit a psychologist together. Sometimes people are not aware of some desires, but the lack of their satisfaction can negatively affect family life. The psychologist will be able to help you understand what exactly you are missing.
