Sexual contact with another person is considered cheating. Sometimes such an event leads to the disintegration of the family, but is it not always worth taking drastic steps if intimate intimacy was with a person for whom there are no emotions.
Sex with a prostitute is a physiological process without attachment or even flirting. A man simply pays for services and grants his desires. If this happens to a married man, you do not need to divorce right away, you need to look at married life and start looking for problems within the union.
Why did he change?
Men are different, someone cannot live without female attention, constantly meets new people, often starts romances. This behavior is too vivid not to be noticed, and wives know full well that the spouse is living a double life. There is another type of men, he will not cheat without special need. But if this happened, then you need to understand the reasons, look for a reason in the sexual life of the family.
Think about whether your family has enough closeness? How often does a woman say that she does not want sex, is not in a mood, or is tired? If refusals occur regularly, the man begins to feel dissatisfied. At first, he looks for ways to persuade his spouse, but then gradually begins to pay attention to other women. And a prostitute in this case is a good option, since he does not betray his beloved lady, does not fall in love on the side, does not start another family.
Boredom in bed can push a man to experiment with another woman. If sex is always the same, if there is nothing interesting in it, and all actions are familiar for a long time, intimacy ceases to bring joy. In this case, you need to either look for inspiration and try something new, or a man can go in search of adventure, and if an opportunity comes up, he will not refuse it.
If it became known about the betrayal
Do not make hasty decisions if you find out about your husband's infidelity. Of course, the first reaction can be violent, but then you should calm down and talk. It is important to do this without tears and reproaches, because it is necessary not only to accuse him, but to hear his version of what is happening. Ask what prompted him to cheat, why he did this. Find out how he sees your future life, is it worth trying to return everything and live as before?
If he asks for forgiveness, he can be forgiven. But there is one important point, if you decide to go further together, then this incident must be forgotten. There is no need to remind at any opportunity that the betrayal was, that he betrayed you. Don't feel guilty all the time, and look for ways not to create more excuses for side trips. And do not forget to be screened for sexually transmitted diseases, because the possibility of infection exists.
If you decide to get divorced, look at the statistics. After 10 years of marriage, more than 50% of men cheat. And many of them do it not for money, but with women who seem to them much more attractive than their wives. You can find another partner, but will it be possible to keep the marriage without cheating? It is better to learn how to maintain harmonious sexual relations in this union, to build a comfortable life together, and not to break the marriage bond because of the mistake that the two have created.
