A family quarrel can sometimes be a serious test for a marriage. If both spouses are only able to blame each other for what happened and are not ready to make concessions, then the family is likely to break up. And only with complete mutual understanding and readiness to meet each other halfway is it possible to restore peace.
Instructions
Step 1
The attempt to restore the old relationship can become painful and lengthy, and the ensuing reconciliation can be unstable due to the fact that the spouses have not fully forgiven each other. Therefore, first of all, try to restore mutual trust.
Step 2
When talking with your partner, try to avoid discussing an argument or your life together. Better to communicate on abstract topics.
Step 3
Start building relationships slowly, there is no need to rush in this matter. To get started, just spend time together. So, have lunch at the same table or watch a movie. If you are not yet ready for contact with your partner, then a separate pastime would be the best option. It is this tactic that will help distract from family problems. In addition, it will increase the craving for your loved one, and you will want to quickly make up. Make the most of this time - you can meet with friends whom you haven't seen for a long time, take on those things that your hands have not reached, etc.
Step 4
Once you feel ready for a serious conversation, take the initiative. Try to speak calmly, without showing emotions. Remember that each of you deserves honest answers to all your questions. Try to figure out together what led to the destruction of trust. Hear your partner's opinion about the fight. At the same time, try not to argue, but show that his experiences are close to you. When speaking, do not use words that can cause conflict. It is better to speak from the position of "I" rather than "you".
Step 5
In order to consolidate the reconciliation, change the situation for a while and do something together. So, you can plan a vacation together or come up with a joint hobby. In the future, always show interest in your loved one and pay attention to him, and your family will become strong and friendly again.
