Few things can shock and hurt a woman more than her husband's betrayal. Especially if the mistress of her faithful informs her that she is a deceived wife. For example, by phone. Moreover, in the most offensive, caustic expressions: they say, marriage has become an empty formality, the husband lives with her only for the sake of children or obeying a sense of duty.
Instructions
Step 1
Shock, shock, burning resentment. It seems to a woman at such a moment that the earth is slipping from under her feet. The first and most natural reaction: it cannot be, this is some kind of stupid joke or revenge! But the interlocutor begins to tell his wife about such details that were known only to her and her husband, and even literally savoring them. And the shocked woman gradually realizes: this is not a joke or revenge, but a sad truth. What to do? To arrange a terrible scandal for the unfaithful spouse? File for divorce? Stop! Now think, because this is what the mistress is seeking. For what purpose did she call you. Is it really out of the notorious female solidarity: they say, poor thing, she does not even suspect about the true appearance of her hubby, so I will open her eyes? Nothing like this. Her only goal is to hurt you as much as possible so that you decide to end your relationship with your husband.
Step 2
Try to understand your rival as a woman. She also wants family happiness. She is burdened by the status of a mistress, she wants to be called a legal wife. She cannot bear the thought that your husband stubbornly does not abandon his family, that for him she is a temporary option. It is clear that this woman feels jealousy and instinctive dislike towards you, because it is you who interfere with her happiness. Her revelations are an attempt to anger, embitter you, destroy your marriage. Will you really follow her lead, actually fulfilling her innermost desire?
Step 3
Of course, you are very offended, angry. But still try to calm down, because you need to make important decisions with a cool head. Objectively and impartially analyze your family relationships, try to find an answer to the question: why did your husband even have a mistress, what did he lack? If you have enough wisdom and justice to admit that there is your share of fault in what happened, consider that half the battle has already been done. Make the necessary adjustments to your behavior, and your husband will very soon be drawn to you like a magnet.
Step 4
In no case do you take revenge on your mistress, do not come to her work or home with a showdown. You yourself will be guilty. Remember: she wants to provoke you in order to play the role of an innocent sufferer. Don't give her so much pleasure.
Step 5
If you decide to save your marriage, try not to reproach your husband, moreover, do not blackmail: "If you go to her, I will not let you meet your children!" This is both unworthy and just stupid. Better calmly let him know that you know everything, but are ready to forgive and forget. With this simple technique, you will outwit your mistress, frustrate her intrigues.
