The relationship between husband and wife can change over time. And these changes are not always for the better. Love can accidentally appear when you are not expecting it, and also suddenly disappear from the heart.
Why is love gone
The woman finds herself in a difficult situation when the former feelings that she had for her husband have passed. There is no more spark, no passion, nothing. It is difficult to collect thoughts in your head and decide to inform your husband about it. First of all, it is scary to injure a person, it is not known how he will behave: he will begin to swear, he will become depressed, he will threaten.
To begin with, a woman must determine the reason why such a change has occurred in her relationship with her husband. Perhaps the daily routine, the absence of children, misunderstandings, dissatisfaction with sex life, material problems led to discord and fading of feelings. It is important to understand for yourself whether it is possible to recreate the euphoria that prevailed in the first years of marriage. It is not necessary to immediately announce the breakup. A relationship of trust must be established between the spouses. It is necessary to be able to conduct a dialogue with each other and always discuss pressing problems so that they do not accumulate from year to year. It is possible by joint efforts to make it so that the fire of love is rekindled, which is extinguished.
The reason is in another man
It is possible that the reason that a woman stopped loving her husband lies in another man. Nobody is immune from such cases. Sometimes love, which seemed eternal and immense, passes through the fault of a third person. The classic situation when a woman did not have enough attention from her husband, and she was ready to give everything in order to feel desired and needed again. And another man became this "lifeline".
It's a good time to tell everything
If the final decision on separation is made, you should choose the right time to calmly explain everything to your husband. This decision should be postponed if the husband is in a state of professional crisis, is seriously ill. If there is even a drop of respect between the spouses, then you should not finish him off with your confessions. In any case, you can do everything as gently and correctly as possible so as not to injure the person.
It is worth remembering that a bitter truth is better than a lie. It's hard to wake up with someone you don't love every day. This is a real test. If a husband truly loves his wife, he will immediately notice changes in her behavior. In this case, it is better not to hide, but to tell everything as it is. It is easier to decide to break up when there are no children together, because there is no additional responsibility.
