Often, over time, the novelty of a relationship dulls, former romance and passion disappear, and, unfortunately, love sometimes passes. So what to do if a girl with whom you have been in a relationship for a long time decided to break up, and you still love her?
First, figure out why the girl is leaving you right now. Was there a major quarrel between you before parting, or did nothing portend trouble? Has the girl got a new boyfriend or is she going nowhere? Your further actions will depend on the answers to these questions.
If you had a quarrel with your girlfriend before breaking up, the conclusion in this situation is obvious - make peace. Find your loved one and sincerely apologize to her. Tell her about your feelings, admit that you would not like to lose her. A bouquet of flowers can add sincerity to your words.
If everything happened spontaneously, and the girl leaves for a reason you do not understand, think about what your meetings looked like at the very beginning of the relationship, and what disappeared. Perhaps the beloved lacks romance, courtship, vivid emotions. How long have you been asking your girlfriend out on a date, making her happy with gifts, doing crazy things together? Behave as you did in the first week of your acquaintance, surprise your partner, please her. Then your half will look at you with different eyes.
It happens that girls talk about parting when they want to check their boyfriend. Perhaps she thinks that you no longer have feelings for her, prefer to meet with friends or, lying on the couch, watch football. Try to talk frankly with the girl, tell her how you feel about her.
If you have a more successful rival who takes your love away, you have two choices. Of course, you can trample your girlfriend's new boyfriend into the mud, proving that you are smarter, stronger, prettier and better than him in all respects. But it is in the animal kingdom that the female leaves with the male who won the fight. It is not necessary that the girl will choose you after this. But think about whether you need one who has already tried to leave for another.
If the girl really fell out of love and does not intend to stay with you anymore, you just have to accept it and let her go. You are a loving person and, in spite of everything, you wish her well.
