It is good when harmony and mutual understanding reign in the relationship of lovers - as it was said before, "calm, smooth, and God's grace." Alas, this is not always the case. Misunderstandings, quarrels, resentments can happen. Or even worse - when the old feeling weakens and even disappears altogether. For example, a girl suddenly says to a guy: “Sorry, but I don't love you anymore. Our relationship cannot continue. " And leaves. How can a guy be in such a situation?
Instructions
Step 1
One can understand the confusion, resentment, indignation of a young man caused by wounded pride. But you better drive those emotions away. Calmness, prudence, common sense - this is what you need to rely on if you are determined to return your beloved.
Step 2
In no case do not arrange stormy scenes with reproaches, especially with threats. And, of course, do not even think about returning your beloved by force. Firstly, it is not in vain that popular wisdom says: "You cannot be lovely." Secondly, we are still talking about a civilized person, not a savage.
Step 3
You should also not "starve out" by telling a girl how you suffer without her, how bad you are. The result is likely to be the exact opposite of what you expect. The girl may feel pity for you, but not love.
Step 4
Wait a while, this is necessary in order for strong emotions to subside. And then try to remember and analyze as carefully as possible: what led to such an outcome? It's not just that, not out of the blue, your girlfriend suddenly stopped loving you. There had to be a reason, and a serious one. This is not easy, because men and women have completely different psychologies, views on the same thing. If you yourself are at a loss, ask your friend or relative for advice.
Step 5
If you understand the reason for the separation and draw all the necessary conclusions, your task is already halfway solved.
Step 6
Tune in in advance that you will have to show both patience and tact. Make it clear to the girl: despite your separation, you still treat her well (the word "love" does not need to be pronounced yet), you are ready to be her friend, help with advice and deed if necessary.
Step 7
Unobtrusively, tactfully start a conversation with her, take an interest in her affairs, successes, offer all possible help. Your task is to ensure that the girl herself gets used to the idea: even if there is no previous relationship, but he is still not indifferent to me, you can rely on him.
Step 8
As soon as you feel that she has "melted", having ceased to feel resentment towards you, try to openly explain yourself. Assure that you have thought a lot about what happened and are ready to behave differently. Ask her to explain herself: what exactly did she dislike about you, what did you do wrong? And then everything depends on you.
