There are two different opinions about jealousy. Some say: "Jealous means he loves." Others defend the point of view that jealousy is destructive for two lovers.
Instructions
Step 1
Jealousy is not the most positive feeling, sometimes it can lead to the destruction of relationships or divorce. Of course, in some cases, jealousy in certain doses can rekindle the dying flame of love between lovers. But in general, jealousy is the lot of weak, insecure and doubting personalities of their partner.
Step 2
If you notice that you have become jealous of your man for his ex-girlfriend, as he began to think about her more often in his stories, then take control over your emotions. Take a closer look at your lover, as he speaks of his ex-girlfriend with tenderness and sadness, or as an element of the past. If it’s the latter, then you don’t need to worry. Each person has a past, without which there will be no future.
Step 3
If your chosen one truly yearns for the one who was before you, then here it is worth thinking, but not getting excited. First, there is no need to doubt yourself, your beauty, erudition, as well as the loyalty of your man. Since he is with you, it means that you were able to attract him with something. Maybe you have the unique qualities of empathy and support for people that were absent in the character of his ex. And with your clarification of relationships, conflicts and scandals, you will only alienate your partner. He will withhold a lot in order to avoid domestic proceedings with you.
Step 4
Jealousy is expressed in the fear of losing power over the object of love. Many women are afraid that their man will leave and return to his ex-girlfriend or wife. And this fear is more often justified by dependence on one's beloved in the material and spiritual sense. Focus on your passions and hobbies, give a splash to your creative endeavors. Find yourself a job or part-time job that you like. Let these actions increase your confidence that you are in demand both at work and as a person, but if you feel that your jealousy is overstepping all boundaries, then you should turn to a specialist for help.
