Male jealousy is a consequence of pride and a sense of possessiveness inherent in all representatives of the stronger sex. Often a man himself does not understand what he is more afraid of: losing his beloved girl or the worries associated with the fact that she will leave him. That is why living with a jealous person is very difficult, because his emotions are not constructive and only destroy the relationship. How can you help your soul mate get rid of the "Othello complex"?
Instructions
Step 1
Give no reason! In modern society, the concepts of "decent" and "indecent" are interpreted in an arbitrary form. For some, open flirting with a husband is normal, someone is not shy about overly revealing clothes. Analyze situations where you made your man jealous. Try to understand, maybe his claims are well founded? In this case, you will have to slightly change your behavior or the way you dress, if, of course, you value the relationship.
Step 2
If you have a jealous person as your life partner, in no case discuss your former partners with him. Even talking about harmless everyday habits can cause contention, as well as the fact that you still remember them. And remembering more intimate things is simply tactless in relation to the current man. Try to behave in such a way that he considers himself the first and only one, at least emotionally. Say more often that you have never loved anyone so much.
Step 3
Communicate heart to heart. Male jealousy differs from female jealousy in that representatives of the stronger sex keep their doubts inside to the last. As you know, a person who is in moral stress continues to pump himself up. Therefore, it is worth letting your loved one speak out. Never dismiss male experiences, do not transfer the topic to something more important for you, but not for him.
Step 4
Support your husband's hobbies. Jealousy comes from low self-esteem, the fear that you will trade him for a more successful opponent. A man can realize himself either at work or in his favorite business. Therefore, do not demand that he turn himself out of his hobbies for the sake of family affairs. After all, then the only object that occupies the thoughts of a jealous person will be yourself. Also, invite him to go in for sports, buy a gym membership. Exercise helps to relieve negativity, relieve stress, and, of course, become more self-confident.
