Recently, the number of divorces has been growing rapidly, and men are often the initiators. If your husband decides to leave you, you yourself must decide whether it is worth fighting for your happiness or it is better to let your loved one go.
Instructions
Step 1
If your husband has told you that he intends to file for a divorce in the near future, you should first try to have a heart-to-heart talk with him. Put emotions aside, try to think soberly and not give vent to tears. It is also not worth stopping to insult and humiliation. Your conversation must be constructive so that it brings at least some kind of result. Ask your lover what is the reason for this decision. Maybe he fell in love with another woman, tired of your quarrels and your indifference, or simply not happy with you because of your behavior. In the first case, it is unlikely that it will be possible to save the marriage, since it is impossible to order the heart, but if the reason for the divorce was a misunderstanding or your shortcomings, you may well find a compromise.
Step 2
After you figure out what exactly led your spouse to these thoughts, ask him to give you some time to think. During this period, you need not only to think carefully about everything, but also to start working on your mistakes.
Step 3
Listen to your husband's opinion and start cultivating yourself. If he doesn’t like your laziness, do your housework actively. If the reason for his dissatisfaction lay in the lack of culinary talent, learn to cook. If he was not happy with your appearance, which you could pretty much run, clean yourself up. Take care of yourself the way you did before you were legally married. Fight those extra pounds with fitness and aerobics, get active, visit a beauty salon and get a new hairstyle. The wardrobe will most likely have to be changed as well.
Step 4
If all your endeavors go unnoticed by your spouse, try to act on the principle of "hot - cold". Arrange your lover a romantic candlelight dinner, during which you can tell him frankly about your emotions, experiences and feelings, and you can end the evening with an erotic massage, sexual dance or a stormy night of love. A man who has been married to you for many years is unlikely to be able to resist such a temptation, and your initiative is likely to please him.
Step 5
You need to spend the next day in a completely different way. Mind your own business, go for a walk, or meet up with your old friends. When your spouse returns home, he will find your absence and lack of fresh homemade food there. When he asks you why you did this, tell him that you had things to do. Laugh and say that after a divorce, he will always have to do everything himself. Then you can again be affectionate and gentle with him. Such incidents keep a man on his toes and make him think about what will happen if you are not around.
