Situations when a husband, for one reason or another, leaves for another woman are almost always extremely painful for the wife. Confused, devastated, stunned by the terrible news, a woman does not know what to do and often decides to take extreme measures.
Instructions
Step 1
First, calm down and think about how you got the idea that the husband is leaving for another woman. If he speaks directly about it, remember if he tried to blackmail you before. Some people tend to threaten with divorce, suicide, and treason in order to get their way. If your husband has such habits, it may be time to visit a psychologist or try to discuss the situation with a man and find a way out. The rival, about whom he speaks openly, can be defeated. But be afraid of a rival, about whom he is silent: if you learn about your husband's intention to leave the family from friends, relatives and acquaintances, the situation can be very serious.
Step 2
Consider whether you want to stay with your husband or are willing to let him go. Not every woman is able to forgive treason and trust a traitor, therefore, if your husband's act is unacceptable to you, and you understand that you can never be happy with this person, just let him go. Open your heart to new love and go in search of new happiness. To make it easier to survive the breakup of your family, try to change: update your wardrobe, radically change your haircut, dye your hair, do yoga, belly dancing, swimming, or any other activity that is beneficial for body and soul.
Step 3
If you want to stay with your husband, and he knows that you are aware of his infidelity, try to calmly discuss the situation with him. In this case, a joint visit to a family psychologist will be very useful. If your husband is sure that you have no idea about his intentions, then just try to change the situation at home. If the man hasn't left yet, there is a chance that he hesitates, and you still have the opportunity to make him change his mind. Too drastic changes will be inappropriate - the man is not blind and will probably understand everything. Start small: a new hairstyle, a delicious dinner, unobtrusive care, a complete absence of quarrels and scandals. Good options are to persuade your husband to have dinner at a restaurant or rent a hotel room for a day. If possible, it is recommended to go on a trip in order to change the scenery at least for a while.
