Usually a woman wants to have a child much more than a man. This is how her feminine essence is manifested, this is how the maternal instinct works. But sometimes the opposite situation happens: a man really wants a child, and a woman resists this desire.
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing a man needs to do in this situation is to talk to his wife, to find out why she does not want a child. It is possible that she has reasonable reasons for this: she believes that it is too early for her to have children, she has fears about the child or some kind of disease that needs to be cured first. Or maybe, for her at this moment in time, her career is simply more important, because at work they see her potential and want to improve her. Women have a lot of reasons for not wanting to have children, a man needs to respectfully and with care treat the point of view of his chosen one and try to find a solution from the current situation.
Step 2
If a woman says that it is too early for her to have children, this means that she does not abandon the child at all. Perhaps a man is really in a hurry to procreate, because in the modern world a woman cannot live only with her family and children. She has dreams for the future, she wants to develop at work, travel, be active in sports and entertainment. With a child, you will no longer be able to often get out to nightclubs or occupy your leisure time with constant moving from place to place. Therefore, in this case, the man will have to give in to his chosen one and give her a little time to mature and realize the natural desire for a girl to have a baby.
Step 3
In the event that a woman has fears about a baby, her husband needs help to dispel them. Perhaps the girl is afraid of pain, thinks that she will not cope with the role of a mother, believes that motherhood is not for her at all. Or maybe she is occupied with much more global issues: for example, how will the family live in a small apartment, what if the husband cannot provide for the family or pay the mortgage, when the girl cannot work, and he will have to feed his wife and child. Or even worse - what if he leaves her with the baby in his arms? All these fears should be allowed to be expressed by the girl and then dispelled. It is imperative to convince your wife that you yourself are completely ready to have a child, you want to take care of him and the girl, and you will be able to provide for them. When a girl is confident in your desire and convinced of your confidence, she can change her mind.
Step 4
If your wife is more concerned with her career and earning more than you, you should consider that she can offer you to sit with your child on maternity leave. There are also such cases, they are especially common in Europe and America, where some dads are much more pleased to sit with their children than to spend time in the office. There is nothing shameful in this, although it is unusual. However, why should a woman change her career ambitions for a child that a man wants more? Many mothers are simply not able to spend three years of their lives on maternity leave in today's fiercely competitive market. Therefore, the way out in this case is to hire a nanny or switch roles with the baby's dad.
Step 5
In any case, you should not put pressure on a woman and reproach her for something, because not everyone sees herself as a mother and an ideal housewife. If you do not agree with the woman at all about the plans for children, try to come to a compromise: your point of view is as important in the family as hers. And neither your wife nor you should persist and prove only your innocence, because in a strong family people are able to resolve conflicts.
