Correspondence between two people is something intimate. Thanks to the words spoken to each other on paper, one can understand not only a person's thoughts, but also his feelings, emotions, character.
Correspondence with a recently known person
If you have been communicating with a girl not too long ago and use letters in this case, you can ask her the following questions. Ask what achievement in her life she considers the most important and significant. Thanks to this, you can have at least some idea of the life values of the fair sex. You can also ask what is more important to her: past, future or present. A person who is happy with his present and has grandiose plans for the future will certainly be able to interest you. Ask about how the girl represents her future husband, what traits she wants to see in him. Such a question will reveal to you the secret about the preferences of your interlocutor. You can find out if you are able to become an ideal for her and create a family someday, if, of course, you yourself thought that you would like to have a relationship with her.
When meeting people, they are often interested in each other's hobbies. Find out what hobby your pen friend prefers. Maybe you have a similar range of interests, and you can share your thoughts on this with her.
In addition, simple questions about whether a girl loves animals, what kind of an ideal family she sees, what kind of relationship she dreams of, what she would like to achieve in life, what films she likes to watch, what kind of music she likes to listen to, whether she loves she compliments and what praises she considers acceptable, could she forgive the betrayal of a friend, how she relates to betrayal, does she believe in friendship between a guy and a girl, what kind of work she dreams of, whether she will choose a family or career growth. There are a great many such banal questions. However, it is they who will reveal to you the character and thoughts of your interlocutor. It all depends only on your imagination.
What questions should not be asked to a girl in a letter
In addition to permissible questions, we can also highlight unacceptable ones. These include the themes of sex, past relationships, other details of intimate life, questions about wealth, weight of the fair sex. Also, you do not need to ask the girl about any details from her life that you have learned from your mutual acquaintances. Such questions can hurt her or upset her. Understand, if the fair sex wants to share something intimate with you, she will raise this topic herself.
