If you want to know if a man is gay, you need to observe him for a while, with some caution. However, you cannot be sure for sure in your guesses until the person admits it to you himself.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have a suspicion that a man you know is gay, do not try to find out from his acquaintances. The worst thing you can do is ask your friends questions about a person's sexual orientation. Even so, perhaps his acquaintances are not aware of this. In any case, such questions would harm that person, whether he is gay or not. By such actions, you either spread unfounded rumors about a person or openly interfere with his personal life, which he may want to hide. In addition, if a man finds out about your actions, he will never confess to you in this matter.
Step 2
Don't judge a person by their style of clothing. There is a widespread belief that if a man wears tight-fitting clothing in bright colors, he is most likely gay. This is not the case, any man can dress this way, it has nothing to do with his orientation. In addition, many athletes and metrosexuals wear such clothes, this is just a style that many adhere to.
Step 3
Pay attention to how the person reacts to talking about gay people. There is no specific reaction betraying gay in this case, but some signs may still indicate this. If a man vigorously defends and supports gay rights, the likelihood that he is gay is high. However, many people who have something to hide about themselves probably won't show such concern for gay people. Try talking to someone about this in front of someone and watch the reaction of the person you suspect. If he is gay, chances are he will listen carefully to the opinions of the person you are talking to.
Step 4
Reactions to the opposite sex can also provide some clues about a person's orientation. But here, too, there can be no certainty. If a man does not have a single girlfriend or even an acquaintance, it can be assumed that he is gay, although it is also possible that he is just a very shy person. It is also important to consider his age. If a guy goes to school and has never had a girlfriend, the likelihood of him being gay is much lower than if a man in his forties is in such a situation.
Step 5
Finally, you can ask the person directly about their orientation. However, you must have good reasons for this. For example, you are very close with a person and want to know everything about him or this is your friend and you, as a woman, want a relationship with him. If you are motivated only by curiosity, forget about this method. In addition, no matter what guides you in trying to find out from a person about his orientation, be prepared for a negative reaction from his part. This will only mean that he is not ready for open communication on this topic, you have absolutely nothing to do with it.
