Women are very gentle creatures. They very often want affection and warmth from their man, but sometimes their other halves simply do not notice and do not understand this.
Why doesn't a person get what he wants?
Psychologists believe that one of the main reasons why a person does not get what he wants is a lack of communication. Even children understand that if you want something, you need to say about it. Partners do not always know that there are needs in a relationship, and they are different for men and women. In order to build a strong and lasting bond, these needs must be taken into account.
The needs of a man: sexual satisfaction; companion in rest; attractive woman; home comfort and warmth; a woman who is proud of her man. Woman needs: tenderness; communication; honesty of a man; financial help; attention of a man to family and children.
Of course, this doesn't mean that by clenching your teeth, you have to satisfy your boyfriend's needs. But you must be willing to give your partner one thing in order for him to give you another in return. If one of the important needs of a man or a woman is not met, it is almost impossible to reach mutual understanding.
If there is no mutual understanding between you, the partner will never be able to give what you need, because he simply will not understand what you want.
What can you do to get what you want from your partner?
Start communicating with your loved one, tell about your feelings and desires, make it clear that you are not trying to tell him what to do, but just want him to listen to you.
Ask what he thinks about, what your chosen one wants, be attentive to what the man says to you, it is important for him.
Tell the man exactly what you want from him. They do not notice hints and take everything literally.
Admire the man, he needs it. Become a friend to your loved one, not a competitor. Pay attention to the strengths of the chosen one, because everyone has flaws, even you.
Thank a man for even the most insignificant actions, this will help him become more sensual. Create a romantic setting, ask him out on a date, or write a confession note, and he will feel your love for himself.
If your partner feels your love, he will want to give you his. Therefore, you will receive everything: love, tenderness, warmth and affection.
The most important thing is communication. Speak and get answered, use conversation to understand each other. Learn to have confidential conversations, this will help to achieve mutual understanding, which, in turn, will help to show quality love for a loved one.
What you sow is what you reap - everyone knows the truth, which unambiguously reflects what exactly needs to be done in order to get what you want. Sow the seeds of love and you will receive the fruits of mutual sincere feelings.
