Resentment, pain, anger, bitterness … There are no words that can fully convey all the feelings that you experience after the betrayal and betrayal of a loved one. But this situation is not as dead-end as it might seem at first glance. If you approach her from the right side, then you can learn to live with your husband after his betrayal.
It is necessary
- - "cold" head
- - "sober" thoughts
- - a little patience and understanding
Instructions
Step 1
First, discard all unnecessary emotions.
Step 2
Further, already with a "cold" head, answer the following question: "Are you one hundred percent sure that there was betrayal?" A positive answer can be given only when it was noticed by you directly "at the crime scene."
Step 3
If you all just suspect about treason, then it is better to ask your husband about it directly than to suffer from the unknown and eat yourself up from the inside.
Step 4
If it turned out that there was a betrayal after all, then you need to act according to the situation: find out the reason for his betrayal.
Step 5
If he makes unconvincing arguments like "it happened", do not agree with this. It is necessary to find out the true reasons for treason. Both of you should understand their importance.
Step 6
If your husband sincerely regrets what he has done, then you should not cut off all your relationships in the bud and take extreme measures.
Step 7
It is also necessary, after finding out all the reasons and reasons, to answer honestly and frankly to oneself: “Do you still love him? Will you be able to trust him as before after what happened? The answers to these questions are very important, because all strong relationships are based on trust. Do not rush to conclusions, carefully weigh the pros and cons.
