For a guy, breaking up a relationship with his girlfriend is not an easy test, especially when she leaves him herself. Here and wounded male pride, and resentment, and pain from separation. Often to this is added a sincere bewilderment: why, because of what? Impressionable, vulnerable young people can experience such a situation very hard, even to the point of depression. How to behave in such cases?
Instructions
Step 1
It is easy to give advice from the outside. But still, the guy who was cheated on by the girl needs to calm down and think it over "with a cold head." You should not immediately after the breakup look for meetings with a girl, call her, fill up with messages, make claims or ask to return. It will only get worse.
Step 2
When the most acute emotions recede, the guy needs to try to understand why the girl left him. After all, the gap would not have happened just like that, out of the blue! Maybe he offended her in some way without noticing it. Maybe the notorious dissimilarity of characters worked. Or the girl just found herself another partner. In the first and second cases, you can still fix it, and in the third, it’s better not even try. This means that the girl did not really appreciate her boyfriend.
Step 3
If there is no hope of renewing the relationship, you need to convince yourself that this has already happened, nothing to fix. Long-term strong experiences, mental anguish will only harm the young man, can embitter him, inspire hostility to the entire fair sex. But does he need it? We must come to terms with what happened, accept it as an unpleasant but useful lesson for the future.
Step 4
The guy is better off getting rid of everything that brings back memories of this girl. Remove her photos from your social media pages, phone numbers, email addresses. Gifts received from her are best removed somewhere far away, out of sight.
Step 5
It is necessary in every possible way to avoid meeting with an ex-girlfriend. You should not talk about her with friends, relatives. Any conversation on this topic, the guy should be politely but decisively suppressed.
Step 6
The best distraction from painful thoughts and worries is being busy. A young person should load himself as much as possible with work, study, hobbies. Then he simply will not have the time and desire to constantly remember his ex-partner.
Step 7
If possible, it is better to leave for a while somewhere away from places where everything reminds of a girl. New experiences will also help you distract yourself from gloomy thoughts.
Step 8
Finally, no one canceled her old wise rule "They knock out a wedge with a wedge". The old girl didn't appreciate the guy? It doesn't matter, the other will appreciate it. A young man only needs to take a closer look at the fair sex. Maybe his happiness is very close, two steps away. You just have to let go of the past and start living in the present.
