Most people are sure that young people are not particularly worried about the betrayal of their beloved girl. Most often, this opinion is due to the fact that the guys are trying to hide their emotions and not to show their pain. How can you survive the betrayal of your beloved, so as not to leave a deep wound in your soul?
Instructions
Step 1
Usually, a young man perceives a girl's betrayal as her dissatisfaction with him as a sexual partner. His consistency as a man for a guy comes to the fore. And then his own imagination "enters" him. He begins to think that his rival is prettier, stronger, richer and more successful. Self-doubt appears. The young man begins to drink alcohol to give himself what he believes to be courage and confidence. If you do not stop in time, then such behavior can lead to sad results.
Step 2
It is necessary to pull yourself together, to understand critically, but without self-flagellation in what happened. Consider if you can forgive your beloved. Just keep in mind that, most likely, even after forgiveness, your thoughts about her betrayal will not go out of your head, you will not be able to trust her, as it was before. If you want to continue a relationship with her, but at the same time constantly hunt her down and check, then nothing good will come of such a relationship.
Step 3
Perhaps the best option would be to forgive her and let her go, to end your relationship with such a girl. Of course, this requires willpower and self-esteem. In order not to become limp from the loss of your beloved, do something interesting, find yourself a hobby that will take up all your free time.
Step 4
Don't start a new romance immediately. After all, you understand that past feelings have not yet faded away and a new connection is just a substitute for past relationships. And can you endlessly trust a new girl, because you still have a sediment in your soul and an insult to the entire female sex?
Step 5
Do not become isolated in yourself and your thoughts. Do not get depressed and endlessly torment yourself with memories of the past. Talk to friends, chat with loved ones. Take a break from gloomy thoughts and switch your interest to work, school, or sports. Perhaps your ex didn't let you go to football arenas, so now you have a great opportunity to review all the championships.
Step 6
If, nevertheless, thoughts about the girl's betrayal do not give you rest, you do not want to see anyone and do not even want to live, then you need to turn to a psychologist for help.
