The problem with guys is that they don't know what adequate communication with a girl is. And if a man cannot connect even a couple of words, then what kind of acquaintance can we talk about? Even if he is beautiful, like the ancient Greek god, this does not mean that he will become the primary subject of female attention.
Establishing points of contact
Positive people attract the attention of others. Imagine a situation: morning, public transport. All are immersed in their worries, in a hurry on business, dull, gloomy and thoughtful. And you light up the bus with your kind, open smile. Such a guy is impossible not to notice. The girl you like will smile back at you - seize the moment.
A man must always and in everything remain a man. Confidence is one of the character traits that distinguishes him from a fragile girl. Don't be afraid to get acquainted. If they turn you down, don't worry. This is a life experience.
When communicating with a girl, you need to know your worth. Of course, you can resort to several attempts to establish contact, but you should not get too carried away and turn the desire to get to know each other into total surveillance. Hold on proudly, confessing the principle: “I got it - great; no - I will find better."
Don't be overly arrogant. This behavior borders on impudence, rudeness and unprincipledness, which may not please every girl.
Decide for yourself for what purpose you want to communicate with a girl - banal sex, friendship, serious relationship, because each of the aspects requires a certain demeanor.
Of course, it's not a problem to start initially warm friendships, but there is one caveat: it is not always possible to switch to something more serious when you are perceived exclusively as an older brother.
Learn to listen and hear. Sometimes a woman just needs to speak out. And if she tells you something with ardor, try not to interrupt, delving into every word spoken as much as possible.
During communication, sharing everyday problems and joys, she increasingly begins to trust you and open up.
We build a dialogue correctly
So, a woman loves with her ears - a long-known axiom that does not require proof, so read books, magazines, watch developmental programs to show how erudite and interested a girl is. Develop and grow not only physically, but also morally - first of all, you need it, and only then those around you.
First, ask about her life and tell us a little about yourself. Get to know each other. Don't be afraid to ask questions.
Spice up the conversation with emotion. Men are more rational and tend to build a dialogue based on facts and logical conclusions. Women are more sensual, so decorate your speech with enthusiastic comparisons, eloquent epithets and metaphors.
Be attentive. Give compliments, but not for the sake of form - women feel indifferent. The compliment should come from the heart. Praise her new hairstyle or piece of clothing - this is a mere trifle for you, but the girl will be pleased.
