The confrontation between the younger and older generations can be observed not only in the novels of famous writers, in the paintings of favorite artists, but also in our modern life. Sometimes in families it happens that the closest and dearest people stop communicating with each other, they are separated for a long time. It is difficult to change the current situation and forgive the parents, but it is simply necessary. Rebuilding relationships is not a quick process.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember the brightest moments associated with parents, with your childhood. Say goodbye to anger, frustration. Open the gas, look around, and you will see how many children and parents are walking in the park, shopping. Everyone has quarrels, but there are also ways to resolve the conflict. As hard as it may be, you will have to rebuild your relationship with your parents.
Step 2
Understand yourself. Do not justify your actions in any way. Find the courage to admit your mistakes. Pretending nothing happened is not an option. It is much easier to ask forgiveness from those in front of whom you are truly guilty than to sit and sulk.
Step 3
Try to understand the root cause of the resentment against your parents. Be patient and tactful, take the first step, and talk face to face. If trust is broken in your family, it will take the efforts of both parties to restore it. Start the conversation with self-criticism, and then ask about their grievances. To make your explanations heard, convey the essence of the problem in understandable language. Admit to your parents that you have behaved incorrectly, perhaps unfairly, that you did not value their participation in your life. Do not forget about your own wishes for them. Maintain your dignity, but not pride - this is the key to the optimal peaceful way out of a conflict situation. Don't show your independence. Ask your parents to be honest with you and not hide anything.
Step 4
If you yourself cannot overcome your pride, but really want to, contact a family psychologist. A conversation with a professional will help you take the initiative into your own hands, teach you to know yourself and bring you down to earth. You will understand that life is meaningless without parents, without communication with them. With its help, you will listen to your heart and follow it.
