Marriage is perceived rather negatively by many men. Lack of freedom and obligations frighten males. So it's no surprise that sometimes even the best men consider getting married.
My girlfriend ruins my life, why marry such?
One of the most common reasons for maintaining bachelor status is the unfounded claims of your girlfriend. If she constantly demands something, gives out a sea of negativity, nags him for any reason, even the most patient and compromising guy will change his mind about associating his life with such a woman.
Single friends can convince a man not to marry. A weak character or dependence on people's opinions can push a man to make this decision.
Another good reason for unwillingness to marry is youth and, as a result, unwillingness to take responsibility. Moreover, youth in this case is rather a subjective criterion. Sometimes at thirty-five and forty years old, a man may consider himself too young for marriage. Such men want to walk up and calm down, but the matter is usually limited to only the first point. In the case of men like this, their excuse "it's too early for me to get married" smoothly turns into "it's too late for me to get married."
The issue of finance takes its place of honor on the list of reasons. The lack of a stable financial situation can lead to long-term promises to get married as soon as possible. After all, marriage implies a further increase in the family, and many responsible men are simply not ready to have children until the financial situation becomes stable.
If a man has repeatedly said that he is not going to marry you, and it is very important for you to get legally married, do not waste time on it, leave. It is unlikely that this relationship will lead you to the altar.
Men and their fears
By the way, the question of children is also very important. Many men are simply not ready for such a responsibility. Moreover, it is not even a matter of limiting their personal freedom. Many men doubt that they can be good fathers. If a man expresses this fear, he must be persuaded. It is usually from doubting men that good parents are made.
Reluctance to become monogamous is an important reason why men might consider getting married. This is a very "honest" reason, because many get married and then cheat on their spouses, satisfying their desires.
Sometimes a man may change his mind about getting married, having come to the conclusion that next to him is not a woman whom he can love until the end of his days. And sometimes a little thing is enough for a man to start doubting his girlfriend or her feelings.
