Each of us wants attention from those people who seem interesting to us. But this attention does not always satisfy us, because the opinion about us can be not only positive, but also negative. How can we change our opinion about ourselves in order to improve relationships with those who are important to us?
Instructions
Step 1
In fact, it is not so easy to do this, because a person, by nature, very rarely changes his opinion about someone or about something, and if this happens, then, as a rule, it happens with a creak. Be prepared for long-term changes on the part of others and do not require them to immediately realize that you are not at all who they think you are.
Step 2
In order to change something, it is important to understand what exactly repels people in you. Most likely, you made the wrong first impression, showed yourself not on your best side, or even did something stupid. Be clear about what you did wrong.
Step 3
Further, it is worth remembering that people will not change their opinion of you if you convince them how good and wonderful you are, and they misunderstood you. You will aggravate the situation if you go into shouting, arguing and indignation. In this case, those around you will take you for a madman and prefer not to mess with you anymore.
Step 4
To change your self-image, you must not talk about your qualities, but show them in specific actions. The first impression about you also formed from your actions, respectively, and you need to change it not with words. Prove in practice that you have something to love and respect.
Step 5
But don't play. If a negative opinion about you is to some extent true, then you should not portray a positive hero just to please others. Start changing yourself, remove negative qualities from your character, and people will notice your changes and appreciate.
Step 6
And most importantly - take your time. You try, with all your might, for some reason, they treat you the same way as before. It's okay, because it is known that building is more difficult than destroying. It can take a long time to change your mind about you, so be prepared for this and wait patiently.
Step 7
As a last resort, all this is necessary for you, and not for other people. First of all, you need to change, and the people around you, whose opinion is valuable to you, over time will surely see you from a real and positive side.
