For a woman, betrayal of a loved one is a tragedy. For her, a period of depression comes, from which it is not at all easy to get out. The reaction of behavior can be different, someone screams and suffers, someone keeps calm and pretends that everything is in order, but when the time comes to make a decision, the question arises of what to do next.
How to do it right
First you need to pull yourself together and decide whether you still need this person or not. It becomes very difficult to think adequately in this situation. A woman's reaction depends on her character, temperament, upbringing and life situation.
Victim type
These are people offended by the whole world who sincerely do not consider themselves to be guilty of anything. Such a woman will definitely decide to take revenge, since there will be no limit to her disappointment. She will do everything to ruin the life of her ex-husband, from reciprocal betrayal, divorce and ending with hysterics, division of property and court. She will not think about children or anything else. Such situations end with the fact that the former spouses hate each other for the rest of their lives and become completely strangers.
"Faithful wife" type
Such a woman will look for a problem in herself, urgently try to change something in order to please her husband. She will not take revenge, she will reproach herself for what she has brought to treason. A deceived wife can make such a decision because of the children, in order to keep the family together. In this situation, she sacrifices only herself, her pride and position in the life of a man. As a rule, the husband subsequently accepts such a reaction as given, and the betrayal will continue.
Type "actress"
Such wives already know in advance how they will behave in a given situation. This applies mainly to unequal marriages, where the man is wealthy or is the main earner of funds and benefits for the family, and the wife is used to living smartly and not worrying about providing. A divorce for such a woman is not at all beneficial, and she turns into a beautiful sweet creature who forgives her careless spouse, and everything remains in its place. Perhaps in her soul her attitude towards him will change, but he will never know about it.
In any case, there is a way out of every situation, and life does not end with treason. Men can inherently cheat, but this does not mean that they did it for love. It is not necessary to take revenge on a husband for treason, as well as to take revenge on anyone in general. Negative feelings will eat you up on the inside faster than you reach your ultimate goals.
Continue to live and improve yourself, be happy and beautiful, positive and kind. Let the man understand which woman he missed. This will be his main punishment. In confirmation of this, there are many cases when a husband on his knees begged for forgiveness for what he had done. The feminine principle is primarily something gentle and peaceful, these are the main qualities of a woman. For men, however, comprehension comes over time.
