Women, due to their emotionality, are especially hard to endure the betrayal of loved ones. Moreover, if a close friend betrayed, from whom there were no secrets, to whom one could tell literally about everything, complain and cry! In such a situation, a woman fully understands the meaning of the saying: "Like a butt on the head." Alas, this happens, and quite often. How to live on with such a shock?
Of course, it is very easy to give advice from the outside. In addition, when a woman is overwhelmed with emotions, when she is really bad, she may well take the advice to come to her senses and pull herself together as a mockery. However, this is the case. As soon as the most acute pain and resentment subside a little, she needs to call on elementary common sense for help.
Has a close friend betrayed you? This means that she has never been her, all the more close! It was only a semblance of friendship. It is quite possible that the so-called "girlfriend" simply used you, getting some benefit from communicating with you.
Does it seem incredible, implausible to you? Despite the betrayal, don't you want to believe it? Well, that speaks in your favor. Then strain your memory and try to remember: how many times has she disinterestedly helped you in a given situation? Or at least offered her help? And how many times have you, pushing aside your interests and even urgent matters, rushed to her rescue? That's just it. Who benefited from your friendship?
Remember the popular wisdom: "A friend is known in trouble!" If she behaved this way, when there was no trouble, what could be expected from her if you or your loved ones, God forbid, were in real danger? Therefore, accept her betrayal as a hard but rewarding lesson. You need to learn to understand people, even those whom you too hastily recorded as "close friends." From now on, be more attentive and careful. This does not at all mean, of course, that one has to withdraw into oneself, seeing in everyone he meets an insidious hypocrite and a scoundrel. But reasonable vigilance has never harmed anyone.
Well, what about if she repents of her unworthy act and asks for your forgiveness? Not an easy question. It's up to you to decide. In any case, even if you will forgive your former close friend, you shouldn't be as outspoken and gullible as you used to be. You should benefit from the postponed lesson.
