Grandmothers and grandfathers are a separate caste from all relatives who take part in the upbringing and care of the newly born child. Whether it is a problem for new parents or an invaluable help remains an open question and an eternal dilemma. One thing is clear for sure - it would be foolish to deny their essential role in the development and care of a baby.
This is a stubborn fact, backed up by an obvious truth:
1. Young mothers and fathers are often strongly dependent on the older generation, because they are still not the full-fledged unit of society that they have created, and their child, in most cases, is not born planned, but because “it happened”. Accordingly, neither materially nor morally, they are not ready to raise the newly born replenishment to their feet, since they do not have either their own corner or money, at least for everything necessary. Therefore, all financial issues smoothly descend on the head of all the same grandparents.
2. The absolute absence of any skills in handling an infant is compensated by the skill of one's own parents.
3. The presence of grandmothers and grandfathers allows the young years to “not be lost” in vain and allows them to throw the little one under a safe wing and go “usefully” to spend time, reinforcing their actions with the phrase “we are still young, I want to take a walk.
But, despite this, there are still families who feel full responsibility for the life, fate, health and development of their baby. These are mainly intelligent young people who try to be as independent as possible from their parents, firstly, and who clearly know how to treat their heir, and secondly. Here a lot of problems are already brewing due to the simultaneous participation in the upbringing of crumbs, which can turn into a real conflict, or even a war.
