In order not to traumatize the child's psyche, parents should know how to quarrel correctly in their presence.
In families with children, over time the question arises - what is the right way to quarrel in their presence? Many believe that quarreling in front of children is prohibited. Unfortunately, there are no families in which people do not quarrel.
Most married couples work, they spend little time alone and therefore do not have time to quarrel. But someday it will happen anyway, and the children will see how the parents sort out their relationship. It will be good for them!
Sometimes family quarrels are useful, because only indifferent people do not quarrel, who are used to driving their feelings deep inside. It could end up bad.
Excuses for a quarrel:
- Children need to know how to put up with it.
- Children should not have a fear of a showdown.
- Children should know that parents can be offended and then love each other as before.
In order not to be ashamed in front of children, you need to know how to quarrel correctly. So, parents should:
- Do not humiliate each other, and also do not call names.
- Do not involve children in an argument. They should only be spectators.
- Do not kick each other out, and also do not threaten divorce.
- Do not remember past grievances.
- See the purpose of the quarrel and know / seek a solution to the conflict.
With such simple rules, quarrels will be much safer, and children will learn to deal with future family conflicts in a constructive way.
