Breaking up with a boyfriend is not a reason for depression and bad mood. There is always a chance to return it and for this there is no need to go to fortune tellers and cook love potions. All you need is to know a few psychological points.
Sometimes a chance meeting with an ex-boyfriend can stir up seemingly extinct feelings. Just one meeting, and for several days now my thoughts have been only about him. And every now and then there is a desire to return the old relationship, to start over, to try again. It is quite possible, you just need to do everything right.
First, it's important to take your time. This is the main thing. Achieving the goal of “getting your ex back in a week” is unlikely, so the first thing to do is to be patient and self-possessed.
You can't put pressure on your ex-boyfriend, as this will cause the exact opposite of the necessary reaction. And instead of rapprochement, you get rejection and rejection. The ideal option is infrequent casual meetings and a gradual increase in pace.
Secondly, when meeting, one must not demonstrate too violent and vivid emotions. Calmness is the key to success. It is important to show yourself as an independent and confident woman who does not suffer at all after breaking up. If you demonstrate otherwise, then the plan to return the relationship will fail, and not really started. After all, it is important for a man to feel like a hunter, a breadwinner, this is an instinct. He must be interested, strive to catch the "prey", make his own, prove his right to it.
The third mandatory point is a constant positive attitude. Not only for show, but always, every minute, every second. Positive people attract, it is warm and cozy next to them. It is to such people that you want to return.
The next step is to start chatting with your ex. Send a message to your phone, write in ICQ or Skype. If a conversation starts, it means that the trick has worked, and interest has again awakened in the young man.
You need to communicate at a distance for some time, do not immediately offer to meet, this can scare the guy off.
It is best to make an appointment in a calm, benevolent tone, do not press, do not beg, do not mention the past.
Another way to get a guy's attention and interest is through rumors. You need to try and do everything possible so that he learns from mutual acquaintances that he may at any time lose the last chance to resume the relationship. For example, he may soon have a rival.
Usually the spirit of competition encourages guys to take action. This is also a hunter's instinct - to do everything so that the prey does not go to another.
It is much more difficult to return an ex if he already has a new girlfriend. Difficult, but still possible.
To implement the plan for the return of a guy, you first need to make friends with his new girlfriend. To gain confidence in her, to begin to communicate closely with her. Firstly, this will allow you to control the situation, and secondly, with certain phrases you can cool her interest in the guy. Or, conversely, his interest in her.
Well, before taking active steps, it would be good to think about whether it is necessary to return the ex. It is worth remembering all the positive and negative aspects of the relationship and decide - would you like to repeat all these little things? Or is it not? After all, people still part for certain reasons, and there is very little chance that the second time everything will be different.
After all, there are so many free, interesting and attractive young people in the world. You don't have to spend your life on one single person.
