Nowadays, more and more often you can hear from young parents that they do not have enough time for anything, including classes with their children. Moreover, those who have only one child also complain, and the house is full of all kinds of equipment that does most of the work.
Instructions
Step 1
Modern life has a fairly fast pace, especially in large cities. There people are constantly running somewhere, in a hurry, and at the same time they do not always have time to do all their business. In villages and small settlements, the sedate way of life is still preserved, when people still have time to enjoy nature and communication with each other.
Step 2
Haste is most often associated with changes in values - now the priority is material benefits and the position in society, because with their help a person is assessed and the opportunity to use all the achievements of the modern world is given. Even education in a public school, which is formally considered free, constantly requires different types of expenses. Not to mention higher education, additional skills and knowledge - all this costs money and, moreover, a lot. Almost every parent wants to give their child at least some kind of start in life in the form of a diploma, without which it is difficult to get a normal job. And in order to have such an opportunity, one has to work and a lot - we are not talking about people with an already existing high income. Therefore, there is less and less time left to communicate with your child.
Step 3
Of course, modern technology makes life a lot easier by creating a technique that does some of the homework for us. These are washing machines, dishwashers, multicooker, robotic vacuum cleaners, and much more. But in order to acquire such assistants, you also need a lot of money, and for this you again need to work a lot.
Step 4
However, when small children appear in the family, it is necessary to change the priorities a little and understand that the communication and development of the child is a very important moment. It is at the preschool age that the character of the baby is formed, the foundations of knowledge and the desire to develop are laid. It depends very much on the parents what kind of person will grow out of their child. You should not shift this function to other people - educators, teachers, nannies, etc. With any degree of employment, you can find some time to be with your child, talk to him, play.
Step 5
Another reason for the lack of time for communication with the child is the unwillingness of these people to be parents. This may be due to youth, selfishness, lack of parental instinct, the desire to live only for oneself. They spend all their free time on their hobbies, going out and other activities, and the child at this time is in the care of grandmothers, nannies, or simply unattended.
Step 6
In any case, even if you are raising a child alone without the help of relatives, you have a very difficult financial situation and you work several jobs, in order to somehow survive, try to find time for your child. After all, this is very important for him - much more important than a clean apartment and a fresh three-course dinner. Household chores can be done with the child, at the same time accustoming him to work, as well as spending time together. And most importantly, talk to your baby more, nothing, a TV or a computer will not replace him with live communication with his parents. Just do not miss this time, otherwise the child will simply not need it later, he will get used to living without you.
