Golden shower is a sexual game in which pleasure is associated with the partner's urine. The phenomenon refers to fetishism and is much more common than you might think. For example, observing your partner's urination is also part of this intimate play.
Natural "golden shower"
This fetish has a complex nature, and its manifestations are quite different. For example, studies have shown that not all women are able to control the muscles of the urethra during orgasm. It happens that during relaxation, which is associated with the highest point of pleasure, over these same muscles you can lose control, and urine appears. Some people cannot even get an orgasm for this very reason, as they are afraid to relax properly and embarrass their partner with the release of this physiological fluid.
This is due to the fact that the width of the urethra in a woman is much larger than that of a man, it is shorter, and there are fewer muscles. During orgasm, the pelvic muscles first contract sharply, and then relax, naturally, that this process also affects the urethra.
As a rule, the smell of urine scares people away, and their desire to have sex immediately disappears. But some men who have met this feature, on the contrary, get separate pleasure from it. At the same time, it is not at all necessary that they like the smell or other properties of urine, they just experience pleasure from the very fact, associating it with getting a partner orgasm.
Observation
Some people enjoy watching a sexual partner relieve a minor need. Some at the same time imagine something, while others are simply pleased with a similar degree of intimacy, when you can see such intimate things.
As a rule, both partners experience pleasure when observing urination. The reason is that sexuality from childhood is often labeled in people as something shameful. Perhaps someone was caught by their parents while masturbating, and someone was even caught during the first experiences with a sexual partner. Urination, like sexuality, is associated with shame in a large number of people. People sometimes find some intersection here, which becomes the reason for the fetish.
Some even deliberately refuse to let their partner go to the toilet in order to induce involuntary urination in them, taking pleasure in the shame they feel.
Other forms of "rain of gold"
In medicine, the abnormality when people experience a particular pleasure in urine is called urophilia. According to the official definition, this includes cases when a person urinates on himself or does it on a partner, getting pleasure from the process. The forms can be very different, some just want to be described, others want to do it in a specific place on the partner's body. Some people really like the taste or smell of urine.
