Many articles have already been written on how to properly communicate with children. Among other things, there are various folk methods. Some tips help and lead to the desired result, while others are generally useless. In fact, there are only three rules, using which, you will definitely establish relationships with children. Even if you only use the first rule, the result will be obvious.
The very first and most important rule for adults is love for children. All tips and tricks fit in one single phrase - love children. And what can be difficult here - to love your child? Many parents love their children because of their selfishness. They are confident that when their child grows up, he will provide them with everything. Others love themselves in the baby. In this case, the parents have the hope that the child will follow in their footsteps. They also love because of the hopes imposed - the child will be able to achieve what the parents did not succeed in. But few people love their baby just for who he really is. You just have to sincerely love your child, and you will receive the same in return. What could be better?
The second rule states that children should not be told the word “not allowed”. It can only be used in certain cases. You cannot touch someone else's, offend others and destroy what was created by people. Otherwise, use different phrases. After all, when you forbid something to your baby, then subconsciously he even more wants to do just that.
Cultivate consciousness in your baby. If you see that the child is going or doing something bad, ask him what he is doing now. Children may not realize that they are doing something wrong. After you have received the answer, ask, and for what purpose he does it. This question will make the child think, and he will begin to realize that he is really doing something stupid. Over time, the baby develops consciousness and before doing something, he will think several times.
Everything is so simple and complicated at the same time. Either way, you should try. If you have already decided to have a child, then you should be fully aware of all the responsibility. A kid requires a lot of time, effort, energy, and most importantly - love and attention.
