In the life of young people, sooner or later, a moment comes when they have a desire or need to live separately from their parents, creating their own "cozy nest". Living together with a girl is an important step towards the birth of a new home.
It is necessary
housing for cohabitation, money for household
Instructions
Step 1
Have you been dating a girl for quite some time now and would like to steer your relationship on a more serious track? In other words, you have long wanted, but do not know how to invite her to start living together. Before talking about this with your beloved, consider the various options for your future coexistence. Maybe you are not yet quite ready for this step and it is better to take a time-out now than after the proposal has been voiced and supported.
Step 2
Read the appropriate psychological literature on the relationship between men and women. Prepare yourself mentally for the fact that in life together, each of the partners must constantly work on themselves. If you do not do this, then in the future you and your half will definitely feel disharmony in the relationship.
Step 3
One of the main questions for any couple is the appearance of children. Before offering a girl a life together, think about whether you are mentally ready for the appearance of a child, whether you are ready to raise your own baby with her. If you yourself answered in the affirmative to this question, feel free to invite the girl to move.
Step 4
Calculate and plan your budget. Will you have enough funds to buy or rent a separate apartment (if you already have your own living space, this, of course, changes things)?
Step 5
If everything is fine with your money and you can afford to move, start looking for an apartment in advance. Buy a newspaper of announcements of your city, or type in the Internet request "I will rent / rent an apartment in the city …". Once you find a suitable option, watch it with your girlfriend. The apartment should appeal to both. At the same time, it is advisable that its owners allow you to make minor cosmetic repairs.
Step 6
Talk to the girl about all household issues related to living together in advance. This also applies to the funds that you will allocate for housekeeping, and the purchase of food, and other other daily activities that accompany the life of married people and couples in love.
